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Wife, Mama, Mystic: Balancing Life, Family & Entrepreneurship from the Heart of Russian Tarot

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If someone told me ten years ago that I’d be running a spiritual business, reading Tarot and channeling healing across the world while raising my amazing son, loving my husband, wrangling laundry piles, making late-evening lunches, and still finding time for me—I might have laughed. Or cried. Or both.

But here I am. And I wouldn’t trade it for anything.


My name is Chrystal, and I am the heart and soul behind Russian Tarot. I’m a Clairvoyant medium, life/transformational coach, energy healer, and spiritual guide. But first—I’m a wife, a mother of a 10 year old son, a daughter, a friend, and a human being navigating this very real, very wild, very full life. The truth? Balancing it all is not always easy. But it is sacred.


🌙 The Myth of Balance vs. The Magic of Harmony

Let me start by saying this: balance doesn’t always look like equal time spent in every role. Some days I am Mom first, making breakfast with one hand while sending voice notes to clients with the other. Other days, I’m deep in spiritual service—performing a distant healing session at 4:45 AM while the house sleeps, and staying in my ceremony until the sun rises. And some nights? I just want to curl up with my husband, watch wrestling or a video game. and not be “on” for anyone.

I’ve learned to seek harmony instead of balance. Harmony means all the parts of me are allowed to exist—and I give each one the time, care, and attention it needs.


👩‍👦‍👦 Mom Life: Gentle Chaos & Infinite Love

Raising a son in today’s world is no joke. He is strong, sensitive, curious, and wise in ways I couldn’t have imagined at his age. Being their mother is my greatest honor—and also my greatest teacher. He reminds me daily to stay present. That love isn’t perfect, it’s real. And sometimes, that means apologizing when I’m short-tempered or making his favorite breakfast on a Tuesday morning just because.

I’ve had to learn how to put down my work and just be their mom—no cards, no crystals, just laughter, chores, and car rides full of questions like “Do spirits sleep?” or “Can you read my energy, Mom?”

My son keep me grounded—and he is why I’m so fiercely committed to following my passion. I want him to see that mom showed up for her dreams without sacrificing her soul.


💍 Wife, Not Afterthought

Being a wife to a supportive, incredible man is part of my foundation. But let’s be real—it takes intentional effort to nurture your marriage while running a business and raising children. There are nights when we pass like ships in the night, exchanging quick updates and a tired smile. And there are other nights when we reconnect deeply—no titles, just love.

I’ve learned to check in. To say, “How are you really?” and to listen. I make space for our shared dreams, not just mine. I honor the parts of him that hold me up, even when I’m busy holding others.


🔮 Entrepreneurial Fire: Purpose with Passion

My work with Russian Tarot isn’t just a job—it’s my calling. I was born to help others see their light, remove emotional burdens, and open their spiritual gifts. But it’s also a full-time business—branding, booking, scheduling, traveling, promoting, creating. I am the CEO, the creator, the healer, the accountant, and sometimes the coffee-runner.

People see the magic—and yes, there’s magic. But behind the scenes, there’s a woman working early mornings and late nights, often barefoot, hairs a mess, surrounded by notes, crystals, and cold coffee. There’s a planner full of color-coded markets, client appointments, and Chrystal Clear scripts.

There are also days when I doubt myself, when I feel like I’m doing everything halfway. And that’s when I remember: I’m not meant to be perfect. I’m meant to be present.


🕯️ How I Ground Myself: My Sacred Anchors

So how do I do it?

Morning Stillness – even five minutes with my coffee, in silence, asking Spirit to guide my day✨ Boundaries – I’ve learned to say “Not today” or “Let me get back to you,” and honor my bandwidth✨ Family First Sundays – no clients, just my boys and husband. This is sacred.

Creative Flow – I journal, I walk in the trees, I hug my son, I dance in the kitchen. Joy is fuel.✨ Weekly Energy Cleanse – Sage, sound, and spirit baths help me reset

Support Circle – I lean on my friends, fellow practitioners, and my guides. No one rises alone.


💌 Final Thoughts from My Heart to Yours

If you’re a mom, wife, or simply a soul juggling many hats—I see you. If you’re building a business, healing your past, and still showing up for dinner every night—I honor you. You don’t have to do it all at once. You just have to do it with intention.

Every chaotic morning, every quiet meditation, every bedtime story, every Tarot reading—they all matter. They are threads in the beautiful, imperfect tapestry of your life.

From my wild, soulful, love-filled life to yours—keep weaving.


Keep Shining,

Chrystal - Russian Tarot


Want to learn more about how I juggle family, healing, and soulful business? Follow me on social media or book a session to experience it for yourself.


 
 
 

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